Ok we're talking today about something super special and something that’s super close to my heart: promise rings. If you’ve been wondering what they’re all about or why they hold such significance, you’re in the right place! A promise ring, often called a pre-engagement ring, is all about commitment. For many couples, it’s like saying, “I’m serious about us!” and hinting at a possible engagement ring down the road. But it doesn’t stop there—promise rings can also symbolise loyalty and devotion, no matter where you are in your relationship journey.
What to say when giving a promise ring?
If you're thinking about giving a promise ring, you might be wondering what to say when the moment comes. Honestly, it’s all about keeping it real and speaking from the heart. I’d probably start with something like, 'I just want you to know how much you mean to me, and this ring is a little reminder of that.' Then, you can add your own personal touch—maybe share a special memory or talk about the future you envision together. Just remember, it’s not about the perfect words; it’s about the love and promise behind them!
What finger does a promise ring go on?
So, you’ve got a promise ring—now the big question is: what hand and finger do you wear your promise ring on? The awesome thing is, it’s totally up to you! The two most popular options are either on your middle finger on your left hand or your ring finger on your right hand. There’s no strict rule here like there is with engagement rings. You can wear it however it feels right for you! You can also pair it with other stunning pieces of gold jewellery, like a dainty ring or a cute ring, for a more layered look!
One amazing thing about our rings is that they are a "one size fits all" design. This means that you can buy a stunning running like our 14K Gold Ring and this will literally fit anyone!
If your job involves a lot of handwork, you might decide not to wear it during those times. And that’s perfectly okay! A cute alternative is to put your ring on a chain, so you can keep it close to your heart without worrying about it getting damaged. It’s a lovely way to keep that meaningful promise ring with you wherever you go.
Promise rings vs. Engagement rings
Let’s clear up a little confusion that often pops up: what is the difference between a promise ring and an engagement ring? Well, they aren't the same, even though they all carry significant meanings and fortunately, all rings aren't created equally. Promise rings are usually given before an engagement, whilst engagement rings celebrate and commemorate a wedding due to happen - think of these being the official declaration that a couple is planning to get hitched. They’re all about that exciting future together!
Promise rings vs. Eternity rings
Then we also have eternity rings, which are a similar kind of ring, but are often gifted after marriage—think big milestone anniversaries! They symbolise a vow of eternal love, similar to infinity rings.
How much is a promise ring and how much should a promise ring cost?
When shopping for a promise ring and deciding on how much to spend on a promise ring, remember to keep your budget in mind. It’s all about finding the right balance. Luckily, promise rings come in all price ranges and styles, so you don’t have to break the bank to find something beautiful. One good thing to consider is the stacking ring option. These look incredible! You can start with one beautiful ring and then build them up over time. Check out how we decided to stack them on our recent shoot. Doesn't it look so gorgeous?
I also suggest people looking for a waterproof range and hypoallergenic range. This just covers you on so many levels!
What does a promise ring mean?
The meaning of a promise ring is that they are beautiful symbols of love, commitment, and even friendship. Whether you’re giving one to a romantic partner or a special friend, they hold deep meaning and can create lasting memories. I’m so proud of our selection at Elk & Bloom and how many promise rings we've seen gifted - from stunning gold heart rings, or gold plated rings, to solid gold rings, gold bank rings, and gold signet rings. I can’t wait for you to find the perfect promise ring that captures your feelings!
Have a lovely day!
Speak soon!
Dominique xx